Tag Archives: should

How to Live in the Real World (Minus One Troubling Word)

Of all the words that exist in our language, “should” may be the one that creates the most suffering. Every aspect of our life is affected and infiltrated by it: I “should” be, he/she “should” be, my life “should” be, this … Continue reading

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Are Your Spiritual “Shoulds” Sabotaging Your Spiritual Life?

A person on a spiritual path should not get angry, and certainly not furious.  This was high on my list of spiritual “shoulds.”  The problem was that I was on what I thought of as a spiritual path (and had been for … Continue reading

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How to Stop Judging Our Own Desires

So many of us judge the worthiness of our activities based on the nature of the activity itself rather than the intention/opportunity for growth behind it.  We decide that we want to study jewelry making, folk guitar, pottery, balloon-twisting, baking, … Continue reading

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